I am not the one deciding on what John and his mom are dancing to at our wedding. But “The Man You’ve Become” sang by Molly Pasutti is definitely my favorite. It brings tears everytime I listen to it.

Snippet:
     I’m so proud of who you are
     The man you’ve become
     Thrilled to share your deepest joy
     To know you’ve found the one
     For the great things you will do
     I’ll be blessed ‘cause you’re my son
     But I’ll always see the boy
     In the man you’ve become

Paula Varsalona Blowout Sample Sale
November 30 – December 5, 2009

Paula Varsalona bridal collections up to 75% off
No appointment necessary.

November 30 – December 5, 2009
Mon-Fri 10am-6pm
Sat 10am-3pm

1375 Broadway, 5th flr
New York City
212-221-5600

My friend’s sister-in-law just got engaged.  I’m so excited coz they’re also planning to get married in Rhode Island.  The couple are cyclers and they recently rode in France.  So my friend thought it would be great to incorporate bicycles into her wedding.  As soon as I’ve heard, I went on to create an inspiration board.

And here’s an Anthropolgie Vintage Bicycle Inspired Picnic designed by Joyful Weddings and Events and Adorations Botanical Artistry for San Diego Style Weddings Magazine:

Kleinfeld Anniversary Blow Out Sample Sale

Tuesday, December 1, 2009 
3:00 p.m. – Doors close at 7:00 p.m. 
No appointment necessary – First Come, First Served  
 
Bridal Gowns starting at $499 and up. 
 Save up to 70% on select sample bridal gowns, headpieces, veils and accessories from top bridal designers
 
No regular priced merchandise will be shown…sample gowns only! Cash/Credit Card and Carry! 
 
Designers include Alita Graham Alivina Valenta Amelia Carrara Amsale Amy Michelson Anna Maier/Ulla Maija Anne Barge Augusta Jones Badgley Mischka Carolina Herrera Christos Claire Pettibone Edgardo Bonilla Eugenia Couture Eve of Milady Henry Roth Ian Stuart Jane Wang J’Aton Couture Jim Hjelm Judd Waddell Kenneth Pool Kirstie Kelly for Disney Lazaro Le Spose di Gio Liancarlo Luci DiBella Marisa Max Mara Michelle Roth Monique Lhuillier Nicole Miller
No ordinary Bride Peter Langner Pnina Tornai Priscilla of Boston Platinum for Priscilla of Boston Reem Acra Rivini RS Couture Victorio & Lucchino Vineyard Collection

I highly recommend the Consumer Action Handbook.  You can order your free copy at www.consumeraction.gov.  You can also find the info online.

The handbook includes tips and information on how to be a savvy consumer, step-by-step guide on how to file a complaint, important consumer resources, a consumer assistance directory.  The handbook begins with consumer tips that you have to keep in mind to avoid being a victim of shady deals and scams.  I find it very helpful.

1. A deal that sounds too good to be true usually is! Be wary of promises to fix your credit problems, low-interest credit cards, deals that let you skip credit card payments, business/job opportunities, risk-free investments, and free travel.
2. Extended warranties and service contracts are rarely worth what you pay for them.
3. Say no to credit insurance offers. Often offered with credit cards, car loans and home mortgages, it is almost always better to purchase regular property, life or disability insurance.
4. There is no universal three-day cooling-off period. Don’t be misled into thinking that you have an automatic three days to cancel a purchase. Only a few types of contracts give you a right to cancel.
5. Don’t share personal information with someone you don’t trust.
6. Beware of payday and tax refund loans. Interest rates on these loans are usually excessive. Even a cash advance on a credit card could be a better option.
7. Not all plastic cards offer the same protections. Your liability for the unauthorized use of a gift card and debit/ATM card may be much higher than the $50 maximum on your credit card.
8. Real estate agents represent the seller – not the buyer. When buying, consider hiring an agent or lawyer who represents you.
9. Home improvement and auto repairs are the subject of frequent complaints Getting a second opinion can help prevent costly mistakes and enable you to make better decisions.
10. Think twice before you rent-to-own. Interest rates on rent-to-own purchases can be very high. If you miss a payment, you could end up with nothing. Consider buying second-hand at a thrift shop or through ads in your local newspaper.
11. Don’t buy under stress. Avoid making big-ticket purchases during times of duress (e.g. coping with a death or debt).
12. Be cautious of Buy Here, Pay Here lots. If you decide to buy a car from a used car lot, be sure to read all of the papers before you sign. Don’t sign contracts that allow the dealership to change the finance rate AFTER you leave the lot.
13. Work-at-home ads usually don’t pay off. Be especially wary of ads that promise huge annual salaries; they often require expensive upfront fees with no guarantee. You risk losing your money and wasting a lot of time and energy.

The Amsale Design Group will be holding a two-day sample sale November 7th and 8th, by appointment. Bridal gowns from Amsale, Kenneth Pool and Christos bridal collections, as well as dresses from the Amsale bridesmaid and party collections. The salon will offer a wide selection of dresses and gowns at up to 70% off retail, normally ranging from $3,400 to $8,000. Find a wide range of sizes available.

All sales are final

Cash, Visa, MasterCard, American Express accepted

Call 212-583-1700

By Appointment

John and I don’t have a song, so it took us longer than usual to find a song to dance to.  We didn’t really want a slow one.  I also don’t want the song to make me cry.  I’m a big crybaby and and I don’t need another one to cry to on my wedding day.  We also don’t want the song to be too fast since we’re not really great dancers lol.  A simple ballroom-y dance will be great, so here’s what we’re dancing to…

Here’s the French version:

Now… how do we dance to that?

What is/was your first dance song? I would love to feature them here as well for my readers who are still looking for their song.

Another filler flower that doesn’t just fill anymore.  It can stand its ground on its own, and it does it beautifully.  It is why we see them in a lot of weddings now.  I am pleasantly surprised.

Row1: KT Merry, Real Simple, Sabine Scherer; Row2: Susan Stripling, Leigh Miller

Row 1: Brides.com, HomeBuddy; Row2: Weddingbee, Sabine Scherer, Shop Local Flower Shops; Row3: Leigh Miller, Sedona Bride

Row1: Country Living, White Lilac Inc, Pacific Weddings; Row2: Real Simple, Ritzy Bee;Row3: Sedona Bride, Flower Allie, Saipua